Showing posts with label family adventures - flashback. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family adventures - flashback. Show all posts

Thursday, January 12, 2012

Things of my Dad

 
 
Below are three things that belonged to my
 Dad.

Top is a special handmade knife
Left-middle is a small transistor radio.
Bottom-right or opera glasses.
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I LUV these!!!  They are...
French opera glasses.

 ...probably made around the beginning of the 1900's
They were given to my father when he
was a young boy of about 10 or 12 (1911-1913) by a
"grandma" lady that had taken a fancy to my dad.  He
told me she was always very nice to him and gave him
candy and other little things.  He was very poor and she
was a lady of "Upper-middle class".  When she was becoming
sick from some "old age ailment", she told my dad to "take
care" of these opera glasses for her that someday they might
become valuable.  They are made of "mother of pearl" and
brass.  They still work perfectly. 
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This was quite a "pride and joy" to my Dad.  He would
take this radio almost everywhere.  It would travel with
him in his coat pocket.  Or set very close to his favorite
chair at home.  Along with the radio would always be
the wired earplugs so that he could listen to sports
and not bother other people.
The cost at the time of purchase in the early 60's...$25.
This is equivalent to about $200 - now prices

It came with this leather snap-on case with a small
attached handle.

There was a turn dial on each side of the radio.
One changed the channels and the other turned
it on and adjusted the volume.  Sadly, this radio
no longer works.

It sure looks fancy dressed only in it's shiney "gold"
vest-like speaker.   I remember my Dad sitting in the
chair at home with his little radio sitting on the arm
of the chair.  The boxing/fights were being broadcast
on the little radio, his ear leaned down close to listen.  He
wasn't using the earplugs because...he was also watching
and half listening to a baseball game playing on the TV.  Boy,
did my mom have more than a few complaining words to say
 about this little scenario.  =P
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This is a knife with a STORY to tell...
See how when the knife is tipped up it is like the curve
on a rocking chair leg?  That is exactly the purpose
for which this blade was made... to rock as it was
tipped up and then rocking back down it would cut food.
Many times it was a piece of filet steak (my Dad's choice of
meat).  Sometimes it would be vegetables or fruit.
This knife was special made by an iron smith/woodworker.
... just for my Dad.

The wood and metal of the knife are made from
old California railroad wood and metal of the 1940s.
I'm sure it could tell some historical tidbits,
if it could talk!

The man made the knife so it would be easier to cut food
with one hand.  Usually, we hold the fork with our left hand,
and cut with a knife in the left (being we are right handed).
But, if you don't have a left hand to put a fork in, it's almost
impossible to cut your food.  It is, however possible with a
... really sharp rocking knife.
My Dad lost his left arm, half way between the elbow and shoulder,
 when he was 17.  He had an accident while working at one of
the early California oil derricks.
He used this knife at every meal at home.  When we went out to
dinner or over to someone's house to eat, my Mom would carry
the knife in a cotton hankie in her purse.
If he didn't have the knife, someone would have to cut
most of his food for him.  The knife gave him a way to do for
himself and avoid the attention toward his only having one arm

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Thank YOU so much for your patience in reading through
the many words that describe how some special vintage items
are woven through my life...


 





Wednesday, June 29, 2011

Grandma's buttons

I'm sorry that this is a wee bit late. But, here goes!

How WONDERFUL is a BUTTON?
Well, I think they are most wonderful, until...
I start to think about making a button hole...those, I don't
really like to make...although, I've made quite a few of
them in days gone by.

Yesterday... I did a post...a poem about
Buttonhead.  And, I promised to show you a few of
my buttons...the sewing/clothes kind.  =)

Some of these are newer and some older.  I have
some of my most WONDERFUL- fond memories...when visiting my
grandma...because, I sorted buttons for her.  With needle and
thread I would "sew" together all the buttons that looked
exactly alike.  These "sets" would be all ready to be re-used 
...on a new garment.

My grandma told me that she never gave away any of her
old, worn-out or too small clothes without taking
ALL the buttons off first.  When, she was little, she said
buttons were hard to come by.  Taking off the buttons, before
giving the clothes away...was taught to her by her mother.

Many times, I've left the buttons on the card until I
was going to use them.  Obviously, there were some
planned sewing projects that never "grew" into a real
"live" garment...that needed these buttons.  Unfinished
clothes items?  Who? Me? aaaaw come on...



Many of the buttons in the group below are at
least from the 70's or before...some are
also from my grandma's button box.


Just above...
if you notice, the two bottom grey matching
buttons that kind of have a bar across the middle of
the inner circle?  These are heavy metal ones, heavier than
a coin of the same size.  I'm not sure what the exact content is. 
 I'm remembering, vaguely,
...I think, grandma told me these were taken from
military clothing.



This picture below...you can see that there
are still threads on the buttons.  Yep, these were
ones that had been removed from previous made
clothing...original thread still attached. 

The two sets, below, are ones that I actually
sewed together when I was about
7 or 8 years old...while visiting my grandma.



This photo is the top of one of my curio cabinets.
And, I've put buttons from my grandma's
button box, in a jar..to display them. 





I'm really grateful for these special
WONDERFUL BUTTONS.
They connect me to my grandma.
While writing this post...I've felt a bit bad that I
don't display grandma's buttons so that they can
be seen and enjoyed with more detail...maybe, I need to
do this! Do you have some suggestions for me?

What about you do you have buttons passed down generations?
Or, some very special ones?

Sunday, June 19, 2011

DAD...some things I remember...

I was in my late 20's when my dad passed away.
He was 71.  Here are some things he told me about himself
and...some things I remember when I was growing up.
~~

 He was the youngest of 4 boys and his dad left his mom when
my dad was only 2
       ~~  
   
 My dad grew up VERY poor. 
He dropped out of school about 3rd grade.  I guess sometime
         in the 3rd grade, the class went on a picnic to a park.  They
were supposed to bring sack lunches with sandwiches. 
My dad said that he was really embarrassed because
 all he could bring were a few crackers.  Telling of this
incident, even in his later years...brought tears to his eyes.

~~

He was born in Chandler, Oklahoma and his childhood friends
were children of "color".  All his life, he never looked
upon anyone differently because of the color of their skin.
~~

If any of you remember the Grapes of Wrath, about the dust bowls
 in the Midwest...my dad was in his late teens at that time.
 With a group of his friends, he traveled to California to get work.
~~

He got a job when he was 17 working in the oil fields in Southern
California.  One evening, after work, on a dare...he grabbed one of the
 big ropes to swing from one side of the big oil tower to the other.  He
 lost his footing and the rope whipped around his arm as it spun
 him around.  His arm was torn badly.  He had to wait in a wood
 shack for more than twelve hours before a doctor arrived. 
(No ambulances back then) They gave him lots of alcohol to
knock him out so that they could cut his left arm off...
above his elbow.
~~

My dad taught himself to read by reading the newspaper every day.  And,
I watched him as a little girl add several columns of numbers....stacked
12-15 high...ALL in his head without using pencil to add them.  We
would use an adding machine to see if he was correct...and he would
be...almost all the time!
~~

 He was a great salesman.  NOT the pushy, loud, fast talking kind.
He would talk and get to know the people and what would be good
 for them and their needs.  He sold cars for many years
       But, when I was born he had just started his own furniture store. 
He told me once that when a husband and wife came into the store...
he could tell with in a few words of talk who had the main
       say in the purchase. 
~~ 

 My dad was always generous with all that he had. 
 He was always thinking of others that were less
      fortunate than him.  He would always stop and talk to "beggars"
 on the street...before he gave them money.  When we had
company over for dinner, he always wanted to have LOTS
of food...usually the best cuts of meat too.
~~

He would have his little transistor radio with an ear plug
 in one ear...listening to a fight (boxing) and then,
 he would have the TV on watching a baseball game.
~~

He could lace and tie his shoes with one hand.  As
well as tie his tie with one hand.
~~

He was always jovial, smiling and wanting to make
others laugh too. 
~~

My Dad liked to waltz.  When I was very little,
I used to dance a lot by standing on his shoes.
~~

Dad was a gambler.  He like going to Las Vegas
and playing dice and roulette.  He also loved the
horse races.  There were many days when I was
in high school, that dad would take me out just
before lunch so that we could go to the Santa Anita
Race Track to watch the horses race.
~~

He belonged to the Rotary Club of America as a Furniture Business owner. 
Many times, in our community, people would tell me what a friendly,
kind man my dad was.
~~

 He was a very good (one armed) golfer. 
He could beat many of the two armed golfers that
he played with.  He won several ribbons and
two trophies in Rotary Club golf tournaments.
~~

My dad always made me feel like a princess!
I had the feeling that no matter how bad I acted,
he would always love me! 
I only wish that he would've been able to 
share more of my life with me...







Sunday, March 20, 2011

when the bakery came to you...











I remember...the Helm's bakery truck.


 It would come by every morning -  Monday thru Saturday -  at the same time on your street by your house.  Both my parents worked so they usually left before I was up, especially during the summer when I didn't go to school. I really looked forward to the bakery truck coming. I would go to bed the night before thinking about what I might get the next morning if I was up in time to run out before the truck passed my house. Many people (kids and adults) would be in PJ's and robes. The bakery truck would give several TOOT-TOOTs as it rounded the cul-de-sac I lived on.  From the back, there were drawers with dozens of donuts, dozens of flavors. Doors opened on the side of the truck and you could step up and walk inside.  Inside there was a small fridge that held things to buy like milk, orange juice, eggs, butter, cheese, etc. You could also purchase a cup of hot chocolate or coffee or if you preferred a cup of juice. Sometimes mom would leave me a small list and the cash to purchase the items. There were no credit cards and the truck driver didn't take a check. But, if you were a regular "good" customer, you could keep a "tab" and pay at the end of the month.

I remember when......... do you?...

Sunday, February 27, 2011

Happy Birthday - Jennifer

One of the perimeters I've set for my blog is that on Sundays the posts will be
family related.  The first Birthday of the year (in our immediate family) is
Jenn's
She is our 4th child and the 3rd daughter.

the 1st of March will be her 27th birthday!

 ^ in this photo session, she did NOT want to sit long enough to
have her picture taken
even now, she doesn't really like sitting still
 for much of anything...

When she was about 9 months -
she was diagnosed with Spinal Meningitis and
stayed in the hospital for several days....we almost lost her


 ^ notice...the cut on her nose? ...... yeah well,
 this the time our family was in a hotel room....
mom and dad were getting ready while Jenn.....
 (bored as usual and looking for something interesting to do)...
decided to tie her ankles together and jump
 from the corner of the bed. 
instead of jumping, she tipped forward and hit her nose on
a dresser sitting very close to the bed. 
Emergency Room trip #4
 Her hair was very long when she was young...
at one point it grew past her "tush"


 ^ in high school she was a tumbling, jumping
cheerleader.....
this is Jenn a few months ago...



When I think of Jennifer ....

She went to CHINA.....
ALL BY HERSELF!!....
okay....she did stay with a family...but,
it still sounds BRAVE to me!

She has always seemed to look after the "under-dog"
If you call her and really need her help....she will do her best to help
She is very smart
If ever I've asked her opinion
 (even at a very young age),
she has always been
able to look at things with logic and sensitivity
She gets bored easily and likes new (big) adventures
She's fun to be with
She always helps to clean-up, clears
the table and helps with the dishes
She has been in the emergency room...
WAY more times than any of her siblings
(in her opinion)
ANYthing you can do she can....
at least do as well...but probably better
and she's never stingy with her hugs!

I love you....happy 27th!







Sunday, February 20, 2011

Five Wooden Stools

FIVE wooden stools?
 why not six? or 8?

And why is there any
 tenderness
towards an ol' wooden stool? 

it's probably just me
my kids wood (pun intended) say
"mom, U are just too sentimental over things"

YOU be the judge.....
am i crazeee for holding onto some
"dumb old wooden stools"
Or
do you see how a stool could take someone on a
sentimental journey?



When we lived in Oregon, we had the kitchen remodeled
I wanted to have a "quick" sit-down
just for the kids
and
a place for EACH one of them
so, it was that we had five children
hence, FIVE stools

it's as if these stools hold a
memory card full of pictures
I see lots of mornings where I'm cooking breakfast
and the kids are getting ready for school
I see days that they came home from school
and sat down to a slice of home baked bread
MANY
other memories pop into mind
when I take just a few minutes
to
reminisce

FIVE wooden stools
remind me of
wonderful memories of
FIVE young children
who are all grown-up now

I say to myself, as my eyes get a bit watery,
"getting rid of these stools would be like
throwing away a memory card full of pictures"

What do YOU think?


Sunday, January 30, 2011

Did she break her neck?

 I tried to find pictures of the almost 900 foot driveway we had while we living in Oregon.  Suffice it to say, it was a long winding driveway cut out of the middle of a "forest" of VERY tall trees

It was probably late spring/early summer of 1987.  We had just recently moved to our home that sat in the middle of 10.5 acres of trees - many of them over 100 feet tall!  Victor and I had gone shopping for a sit-down lawn mower for the acre of grass directly surrounding the home.  Eddie (almost 10yrs) was at home with Emily (5yrs) and Jennifer (3yrs).  I know that is a big job for a young boy.  But, honestly and for the most part, Eddie was a GREAT babysitter, very responsible and caring.

After an hour or so, we arrived home to find Emily laying on the couch in the family room "resting".  Half an hour passed and she remained in the same position, barely moving her head.  Umm, not normal....  Me to Emily, "Are you feeling ok?".  Ems responds quietly and still not moving much, "yeah".
Me to her again, "You don't seem ok.  What's wrong?"  She didn't want to volunteer any information. 

I called for Eddie.  "Eddie, why is Ems just laying here?  What happened?  Did she eat something that made her feel yucky?"  Eddie answers reluctantly,  "Uh she kinda fell off her bike". 

The story looking back:

It seems that Eddie was going to ride his bike down to the mail box which sat at the end of long driveway.   Emily wanted to go too.  First problem - she was borrowing a bike that was too big for her.  Second problem - driveway was not only winding with lots of trees on the side, but, it had a fairly fast slope down to the mailbox.

Emily's bike started going  faster than she could control.  She yelled ahead to Eddie that she couldn't stop.  He told her it would be easier to stop by going off the driveway.  Stop she did.  The bike went off driveway and she "flew" into a large tree trunk.  Eddie recalls,  "I was imagining all sorts of terrible stuff as I walked up to her laying on the ground.  She was crying and not wanting to move.  Did she break her neck?"

We took Emily to the Doctor and got x-rays.  She did break something.  But, not as serious as her neck.  she had broken her collar bone. 

Come to find out later, this would not be Emily's last mishap on a bike.  =D

Sunday, January 16, 2011

a favorite sewing room tool

1987 was the year.  Later in the post you will see how I'm able to remember the year so clearly.  I was in my sewing room and making PJ bottoms for one of the kids.  I've always bought the whole roll of elastic when its on sale at 40-50% off.  It goes fairly fast when you're making lots of PJs.  I was trying to pull it off the roll and measure the amount to cut.  But, the roll wasn't turning on the table.  In fact, sometimes the whole roll would fall onto the floor. 

Eddie (our son, 10 years old at the time) walked into the sewing room, saw my dilemma and said, "I have an idea that could help!"  In a flash he disappeared to the garage. 

20 minutes later he came back with this:



It works perfectly! 
The elastic roll turns easily as I pull the elastic off to measure and cut.


As you can see it has been signed and dated by the "artist"

Thanks Eddie!  I still use this unique sewing tool today!
Every once in a while I turn it upside down to read the words and
to remember how thoughtful you were that day to help solve the
elastic roll dilemma.  =0)



Sunday, January 9, 2011

little girl and mom at the fabric store

I'm going to try to write each Sunday something about past family adventures ~~

     I have always loved to visit fabric shops - ever since I can remember.  When I was just a very young mother, I would take trips to a fabric store just to get out of the house and Deeanna my oldest daughter would "happily" come with me.  The fabric shop nearest our home in Upland, California was the one I most often visited.  Deeanna and I would go to the pattern table and she would perch herself on her knees in the chair next to me.  I was searching for patterns to make clothes for her and/or me.  She would look quickly through the pictures where the children's clothes were and the craft section. 
     Then, she would be down off the chair to investigate other areas of the store.  I'd have to get up and bring her back.  This would happen maybe 3-4 times until I would give her my big purse to go thru.  She would sit on the carpeted floor by me and dump out my whole purse.  I don't remember all the things that I might have had in my purse back all those years (34 to be exact) ago.  But, I do remember I would keep a few small toys and things in there just for an occasion such as this.  There is one thing that stand out in my memory, tho.  It was a photo wallet.  Now a days we just take out our phones and show people family pictures.  Back then, no such thing existed.  This mini photo album kept her busy the longest.  She would sometimes get back into the chair next to me and tell me all about the pictures as she turned from one to the other in the album.  This would give me at least another thirty minutes of viewing pattern catalogs.



What I carried in my purse was similar to the small wallet size in the middle of this photo.
I would change the pictures every so often and they would include pictures
of  Deeanna, other relatives and sometimes I would cut out of magazines
things that she might think fun to look at. 

After choosing the pattern, Deeanna was great at helping me to decide what color/design to use for the pattern.  Even at 2 years, she loved to be the one to decide what fabric was going to be used - either for her outfit or mine.  


Wednesday, December 8, 2010

Charmin Chatty for Christmas

Charmin Chatty was one of my favorite and most memorable Christmas gift. I still have her.  She came out about the time I was 11 years old.  Chatty Cathy came out a bit before Charmin Chatty.  Both had recorded words/phrases that you could hear by pulling a ring attached to a string that came out of her back.  But, Charmin had records that you could slide into her side which gave her more than 100 different phrases.  Each record had a category like a birthday or a vacation, etc.  I would take her in the car almost everywhere I traveled.  There were many times at home, while I was alone, Charmin Chatty kept me company by "talking" to me.